Attract Women With The Things You CAN Control

Attract Women With The Things You CAN Control

Listen up, when it comes to women and relationships...
however you'd like to define it... most men worry
about ALL the wrong things.

You see, I get questions... and read questions... about
whether "looks" are important for attraction ALL THE TIME.

And, when I say "looks", I'm really talking about a man's
face and many of the things that we have absolutely no
control over in our lives.

(As an aside, we have no control over where we come from
either, but we DO have control over where we go from there)

We really have no control on the actual structure of our
face... and quite frankly... the research shows conflicting
results when it comes to "facial beauty" and attraction.

In fact, research shows time and time again that the only
things that matter in our quest to be the best man
that we can be... reside in the things that we CAN control.

Here are the things that we ultimately CAN control:

Our haircut
Our clothes
Our character
Our body
Our finances
Our social circle

... plus a whole gaggle of other things that are all within
our control.

THESE are the things that matter the most to women (and other
people that may want to get to know us better).

Listen closely, because this is important:

The RESEARCH shows NO DIRECT correlation to facial beauty and
the type of woman that we'll end up with.

In fact, the ONLY things that matter can really be lumped into
4 distinct categories:

Social Status (most important)
Physical Attractiveness (your "look")
Social Dominance ("alpha" male trait, how you handle yourself)
Physical Dominance ("alpha" male trait, how you LOOK like you
can handle yourself)

The first one, Social Status is the most important criteria
that women look for when it comes to men (as proven by
research).

Naturally, social status means "who we are" in relation to
other people.

Think about this for a second, when a man tells another man that
he's seeing a new woman... what does the other man say?

"Cool man, what's she look like?"

Now, have you ever heard a conversation between two women about
a new guy? The response to the same question is usually:

"Great... what does he DO?"

... which naturally gives us a quick flash into a man's social
status.

Interestingly enough, if a men tells a woman that he's dating
a new woman, the woman will ask:

"What's she look like?"

... and on the other side, if a woman tells a man that she's
dating someone new, he usually asks:

"What does he do?"

So, both women AND men know, deep down that social status is
an important part of a woman's attraction process.

The second criterion, "physical attractiveness", is all about
our "look".

Studies show that our facial features don't really contribute
as much to physical attractiveness like all of the other things
that we CAN control (body, facial hair, haircut, clothes, etc)

Physical attractiveness stems from the "halo effect" whereas
women will make a "snap" judgment of you based upon our "look".

Make no mistake about it, our "look" is extremely important
to maintain as it gives a woman a great window into what our
lives are REALLY about.

The third criterion, social dominance is a little different
than social status. Social dominance has to do with our
leadership ability, our ability to handle ourselves in
social situations, our character, and our confidence in
ourselves.

These are all skills and lifestyle additions that can be
learned.

The fourth criterion, physical dominance, has to do with our
ability to take care of ourselves in a physical situation.

Can we fight? Can we physically take care of her if we
need to?

Do you LOOK like we can? (ie, do you look like a wuss?)

All of these criteria that research proves are MOST IMPORTANT
to a woman... can ALL be either learned or developed.

Again, it's the things that you CAN control that matter the
most.

If you don't think so, I can show you COUNTLESS numbers of
great looking men... that have no character, no ambition,
and no status... that date WAY UNDER their "potential" in
the "looks" category.

Most of these men end up leading pitiful lives because they
think that their looks are going to get them anywhere they
want.

But they continue to live in mediocrity.

On the other hand, I can think of plenty of people that
don't have great "looks", but have everything that they
CAN control IN control.

A perfect example would be Jay-Z.

Face wise, he's always getting joked on. Yet, I'm always
hearing women say how hot he is.

Think about that.

But whats the answer then... in layman's terms.

Point blank: We need to improve what we CAN improve EVERY
DAY.

A good place to start... our bodies.

Studies prove that people that make significant advances
in their bodies also reap other "side effects" in the other
4 criteria that women ultimately look for in a man.

Think about how an improved body improves confidence,
which improves social status and social dominance.

And, of course, it's quite obvious that improving your
body will improve your physical "look" and your physical
dominance, right?